Abandoners or Adaptors? 🇿🇦 🏉 ✈️ 🇺🇸 🏈
A personal reflection — and maybe a professional one too. My sons grew up playing rugby in South Africa — the kind of rugby that stitches itself into your weekends, your friendships, your childhood. It’s not just a sport back home… it’s a heartbeat. When we moved to the U.S., rugby wasn’t an option at […]
Finding My Tribe, Thousand of Kilometres from Home 🇿🇦 👭 🇺🇸
When we moved to the U.S., I thought: Well, at least we won’t have a language barrier. Turns out, I was wrong. Yes, we all technically speak English — but between the accents, the slang, and the “Sorry, are you British?” moments… it sometimes feels like we’re translating in real time. One of the greatest […]
The Time Zone Tug
I felt very disconnected… by the “time-zone tug” 🇿🇦 🕒 🇺🇸 🕘 From my people. From my rhythm. From the time on the clock. One of the most unexpected challenges of emigrating to the U.S. wasn’t the paperwork or packing or even missing my family— it was the quiet, constant disconnection caused by time itself. […]
10 Suitcases and a Whole Lot of Dreams 🇿🇦 ✈️ 🇺🇸
It is almost 3 years since our family of 5 left South Africa, 2 suitcases each, and hearts full of courage, nerves and sadness. Our kids were 8, 13, and 15 — old enough to have roots, young enough to still believe in adventure. My husband was offered an opportunity to start the U.S. arm […]
When Family Visits, its one of the emigration milestones… 🇿🇦 🧳 🇺🇸
When you emigrate, you don’t just pack up your belongings and say goodbye, you leave behind the people who’ve always been your constants. Parents, siblings, nephews, lifelong friends. And no matter how excited you are for the new adventure, the ache of that distance never quite disappears- for you or for them. Last summer, we […]