Emigration doesn’t just test you. It tests your marriage.
Nobody really talks about this. We obsess over the visas, the schools, the shipping containers, the logistics of it all. But underneath everything is something far more fragile… your relationship. Marriage is already a lot. Add kids, careers, the daily weight of keeping life together- it’s full before you even start. Then layer emigration on […]
Watching Your Children Become Something New 🇿🇦 🇺🇸
It caught me off guard the first time it happened. I said a word the way I’ve said it my whole life, and one of my kids corrected me. Not in a cheeky way, not even in a funny way. Just naturally. Instinctively. “That’s not how you say it.” I laughed it off at the […]
🎶🌍 “It’s gonna take a lot to drag me away from you,
There’s nothin’ that a hundred men or more could ever do,I bless the rains down in Africa,Gonna take some time to do the things we never had” Not long after arriving in the U.S., we booked our first big concert: Journey. An 80s kid’s dream. We were super excited, nostalgic and all those things. The […]
I’ve acquired a new skill!
This week, I made my first batch of biltong — and honestly, I’m not sure if I was more proud of the result or the fact that my whole house now smells like home.There’s something magical about the taste of biltong ❤️ — that unmistakable mix of coriander, vinegar and nostalgia that instantly transports you […]